Busy balancing the busyness

Life here on the homestead has been busy. Most people can relate to bring busy.

I have been busy at work due to the amounts of snow we have been “blessed” with this year. I have been busy with bedrooms (the house came with one finished bedroom and a few that were in various states of being started or being completed). So I have added framing, drywall, mud and paint. It has been busy and that’s okay. It is an important task that needs to be done for all of our families sanity. We love each other dearly but we all need our space. We all need a spot to retreat and to regroup. So we have been making it a priority to acomplish these rooms so we can help create a better balance for our family life.

Part of this has been a hard struggle for me.  I can be focused on getting the task done and not want to be bothered by the kids and therefore lose out on teachable moments. One reason for moving to the homestead is so we can speak into our children’s lives and to equip them with tools and skills to succeed in life. This means that even if I might be able to get this done sooner on my own it might not be the right thing to do. So…I have had to remind myself to include them so they can learn. What better time to teach some simple skills by involving them in finishing their bedrooms.  

In number ones bedroom the screws in some parts of the closet aren’t burried quite deep enough that you will notice them for years to come (he put them in on his own) some he got perfect, some I fixed and some I didn’t as a reminder to both of us down the road that we all learn somewhere, and it might not be perfect but you can improve over time. 

Number two helped measure what cuts we needed to make for sheets of drywall to be hung…not sure how many extra cuts I made or how much extra time I spent going over how to measure.  But in the end it was worth it. Number two has learned some skills and learned that we need to stick through it and that we aren’t all perfect off the top but that we need to be taught and practice our skills to get better at them. 

All the kids have come up with their own ideas of how they would like to paint their rooms here is number two’s finished paint.*

We haven’t started on Number three’s bedroom yet. However Number three has more interest in helping with construction even though younger it is his personality. And he has always been this way.  I remember roofing a friends house a few years ago. The house was just behind the school so number one and two would walk over after school and play outside until Amanda came to get them while I continued my days work. Number three was in Daycare, Amanda would pick him up and come see the progress of the roof and take the other children home. One of these times she came up on the roof to talk to me and see where things were at. So while I was talking to her I heard a small voice asking what could he hammer! Looking over I saw number three standing on the roof holding a hammer, he had climbed the ladder by himself because he wants to be involved in the job in the work at hand. We calmly talked with him and got him safely down on the ground again.  The other children said later that they didn’t realize they were allowed up on the roof. It didn’t even occur to them to try it out. Number three is our risk taker who is ready to plunge into whatever you would allow him to (if your ready for it or not).

I am so glad to see our children learn new skills and confidence in their ability to learn new things. They have all been adjusting well to these changes in our life here on the homestead. I have been learning to balance getting it done and getting it done a little slower but empowering our children through the process. I think it is worth the wait. 

Amanda is so much better at having them involved in the things she does (I think it is a mom thing) than I am.  Thank you Amanda for doing that and reminding me of the importance of taking the time to do that.

And so we continue to be busy balancing the busyness with priority of enrichment of our children’s lives compared to the speed we could accomplish the task at hand.

*I will post pictures of the other bedroom paint schemes when they are finished.

Shane

Farm aches….already 

I love pigs!

We had a little pot bellied when we lived in town and I adored her. I mean that cute kissable snout how could you not.

So evidently pigs are in our farm plan- year 1. We looked and researched and found the ideal breed for our heritage farm- Berkshires on the critical list according to 2015 numbers from rare breeds Canada conservation with less then 35 sows being registered a year. Its a dark pig so not prone to sunburn, docile in nature , excellent meat quality and adaptive to different surroundings. Yup that sounds like our pig. 

In January before we moved I started the search purebred berkshire piglets, something weaning early spring. Oh the joy when I found just what I was looking for, born Dec 4th 2016 ready to go mid February ” Shane look that even gives us 3 weeks to settle in!” We dicussed back and forth and placed a deposit on 3 gilts 2 for the freezer and 1 for love …oh I mean breeding. I’ve been counting down the days until we get to pick them up.

The next challenge….. Where to put them in February on land we have never seen without snow that is currently waist deep? Well we have this.


It has alright bones and a steel roof it will get us through to spring. We purchased boarding for the sides, house wrap to keep the drafts out, plywood and 2x4s to make a floor off the ground.

Then I researched and researched feed settled on a premade organic for now, got a fun ball for boredom and was all set.

Saturday is our day and I am counting them down…At least I was until Thursday.

Thursday I got a message from the breeder and my heart sank alittle. Our piggies are coming from the Barrie area, they were born outdoors in weather similar to ours an ideal situation, the Barrie area however is struggling with a slight coyote issue. And alas our livestock isn’t even here and already we are dealing with predators. We lost our little piggies to a pack of coyote on Tuesday night. 

My exciting Saturday has now been put off until spring, nicer weather and new stock. 

 We are experiencing our first farm-ache.

Dogs being dogs again

When we lived in town the dogs couldn’t be outside for long without supervison or being locked in a fenced area to keep them home.The reason for this was because of a bylaw against noise and it was pretty sketchy as to what was considered a noise infraction. The dogs would also bark at all the sounds of town and the people walking by down town. There were plenty of smells and plenty of other dogs in the area to bark at. Out here on the homestead the dogs enjoy being outside! They aren’t being scolded for barking, and truth be told they are barking less and staying out longer. It seems that they are enjoying the freedom to roam, they run with the kids and they play with each other running around through the pines. It makes me smile seeing them get to be dogs again.

It’s good to have goals.

We are different Shane and I, in one very simple fact that largely impacts the way our life goes awesomely enough we manage to laugh through this difference often….

  Shane has this mind this crazy whirling mind full to the brim with thoughts, ideas,revelations, betterment of things, dreams.

 Shane is a dreamer.

I on the other hand tend to be very practical, with practicality comes doing, this is what we want it is logical and it makes sense. Do it.

I am a do-er 

And that is where it all comes apart Shane dreams, I do. We had big dreams once of completely downsizing and living in a camper our family of 5, I sold everything furniture, extra clothes, kitchen stuff, even our matteress ( it was a queen we only had room for a double) deciding what we really needed and what would really fit. Needless to say we never moved into that camper and we needed a new bed.

I spend a lot of time encouraging Shane to dream out loud. I love his dreams and his excitments. I also spend a lot of time reminding myself they are just dreams some forgotten by the next day, most will never come to fruition.

So naturally when we signed those first set of papers for Splitrock he dreamed, 33 properties we walked together, dreamed about until we settled here with this one…there we a lot of dreams.

There continues to be a lot of dreams and we get off track. So before we moved in, before we started doing, we set some goals, a 3 year plan of what we hope and dream to see happen and done here at Splitrock….. And in 3 weeks of being on the farm Shane has  dreamed and I have answered ” ok let’s do it!” ( for the record I think that makes me an awesome wife 😉).

So I  am going to publish our 3 year plan here in print for the world ( hopefully that will hold us to it and ground us some) dreams take money and time, sometimes we forget those parts until we are half way through the doing. Also to give you some insight to what we hope to do in the future.

Year 1 2017

  • Solar ( this has down graded based on pricing to battery back-up hopefully installed early spring)
  • To till, plant establish the exsisting garden ( 3600 square feet, seeds are here!)
  • Chickens ( we have ordered 25 silver laced wyndottes being picked up in April, we are realizing greatly impart to your interest in eggs we are going to need more this year)
  • Do 10 litres of sap by buckets for our personal use 
  • Build/ finish 3 bedrooms for the kids ( as of writing all walls are up drywalling is in process, thanks largely inpart to our great friend Jamie)
  • Start stage 1 of a tree house for the kids ( they are building themselves with guidance)
  • Shane take his hunters course and get his licencing for the fall hunt
  • Cut split and stack enough fire wood to get us through the winter ( I am hoping for 22 face cords, this is also an added bonus of clearing valuable pasture land, and maintaining our up and coming sugar bush.

Our ” if we get to it 2017 list” includes

  • Building a cord wood garden shed out of some trees we need to take down to clear future pasture approx 10 x10
  • Put up some fencing ( mainly stand back up exstiting perimeter fence)
  • Buy some pigs ( which we jumped the gun on and we should have 3 berkshire piglets here by mid Febuary.

    Year 2 2018 

    We need to maintain what we started in 2017 mainly garden, chickens and pigs winter wood for us plus: 

    • We need to purchase our second battery bank – 8 batteries ( we have about 18 months from the install of our first battery bank to add these or the life of all our batteries will be compromised)
    • We would like to produce family and friend maple syrup this year approx 20-50 litres.
    • Start the construction of the sugar shack in hopes of future production growth, this includes maintaining good tree growth and  opening up crown spacing to allow for higher sugar content.
    • Build a lean to with fenced in paddock
    • Build a hay  barn ( Shane would love a new shop and the existing drive shed would then convert to barn  and hay storage)
    • Cut access wood to sell, to off set cost of putting up a lean to and a hay barn or new workshop.
    • Purchase a small draft horse ( Canadian) to log with, and keep trails cleared ( also for Shane’s sanity)
    • Start 2 bee hives this includes making sure there is enough polinator friendly  plants near by and good fencing.
    • Hopefully in 2017 the pigs have cleared, tilled and fertilized my future fruit garden location and this year we can add some fruit trees, berry patch and melons.

    If we ” get to ” 2018 list

    • Add a greenhouse partition to the front of the garden shed
    • Add goats to the livestock list ( they will be great for clearing out some underbrush )

    Year 3 2019 

    Along with maintaining and growing above , pig breeding, more chickens, larger gardens, wood for personal and sale we hope to see 2019 include

    • Add solar panels use less generator!!
    • An evaporator added to the sugar shack and hopefully a gravity feed line system. No more buckets!
    • A second horse hopefully another Canadian to make a team
    • Some cows ( we are still disagreeing as to which ones so stay tuned)
    • Possibly some sheep ( which then would include a donkey)
    • Ducks

    Hopefully by this time its working kind well and it’s more maintaining then anything. If so maybe I can get a new kitchen put on the list!.

    This is the list we dreamed before we got here, before we settled in, before we even ever seen it without snow before there was opportunity for more dreams and more doing. Stay tuned let’s see if we stay on track!

    Stuff….

    I looked around our ‘ big house’ at all our stuff and thought we really don’t have a lot of stuff. I do pretty good at regularly purging, at limiting what our kids have, at gifting them memories ( experiences) over materials. 

    We go over wardrobes twice a year and get rid of the doesn’t fit or outlived clothing and only replace to the number 9 ( 9 pants, 9 shirts ect…) We repurpose and ” hand down” as much as we can ( which is getting harder as number 1 and number 3 are almost the same size now) 

    Then I packed our big house took a trailer load to the thrift store sold our  dinner table, kitchen hutch, traded the dryer in for a collapsible drying rack, traded kids dressers for captains bed. Looked at our room full of boxes and exclaimed we really don’t have that much stuff!

    We are here now in our ‘small’ house, with our stuff and slowly things are unpacking one room at a time we are settling in.

     And although I still stick to the claim we don’t have a lot of stuff, we still have things we could live without ( 6 days with no water teaches you a lot about necessity and it’s importance), 13 days of 3/4 of your life’s stuff still in boxes is a great way to see what you thought you wanted but never really use, and the things you use but can still function well with out.

    Plus we have outside, outside is riddled with snowshoe tracks and doggies prints, with kids snow forts, hiding spots, climbing trees and no stuff! 


    The longer I ponder our pile of stuff, the rooms still filled with boxes I am perplexed about what should really stay and what should go. I have boxes upon boxes of kitchen supplies let’s face it I had this beautiful kitchen

    Which grudingly I traded for this

    Yes that is really it, but it’s all about the experience so 3 sleepless nights stressing how I was ever going to provide my family of 5 with good food ( hopefully soon, our own raised good food) in this kitchen  I succumbed, we moved,  and I did it. Aside from the fact there isn’t enough space for the kids to pitch in as much as I would like we are doing it  and fairly well. So as I wander into the basement full of kitchen stuff and dream of the kitchen I hope to have I ponder do I really need all this stuff?  

    Then I head outside to work on the pig pen for thier upcoming arrival and get away from all the stuff.

    Life is good

    The water is running!

    We found our septic bed.

    Thanks in part to yesterday’s septic back-up.

    We have an appointment today with haliburton solar and wind to dicuss our power options.

    Non adventurous child 1 travelled through the pasture and bush exploring his way to the bus stop today = big win!

    Child 2 joins us tonight, I cannot wait to show her around.

    Comical number 3

    Wakes up this morning to see the sun rising

    And starts belting out ” for the first time in forever!”
    Life is good.

    WATER!

    Before I get into this post let me say thank you to all the people who have offered help, the use of their generators, use of their showers and water.  We have an amazing community around us thank you to you all for your support and care.

    The other thing to warn you about is that this post might be a little rambled as this past week has been long days and short nights as we try to work and get things organized and systems working.

    Well let’s see…since my last post we have moved, (which reminds me that I need to thank more people) we have been trying to find things that are in boxes that are not unpacked as things here on the homestead have started off in an interesting manner. 

    The weather has been unseasonably warm. The woodstoves have been great to start and easy to keep going so far. The generator has been giving us a hard time in starting. We need it for water. It needs to run the pump. However it will roll but not fire…it is most likely spark as I put fresh fuel in it and checked filters.  Anyways after some discussion we decided to purchase a new generator as the one here is a little under sized for what it us expected to do. It is good generator that once we tune it it will be great for when we get the sugar bush up and running or in the future shop, regardless it will be put to good use. 

    So we picked up a new generator. We hauled it to the gen shed put oil and fuel in it and it fired right up! I could taste the water that we would have shortly…but that night we had no such luck…the plug end for the hook up for the pump to the generator was a different end than the receptical on the generator. Stores were closed…the next day I purchased a new end changed out it out on the wire…fired up the generator and nothing…hmm frustration set in…fired up a small generator we have to run smaller stuff to see if we had any power running into the house on any of the three wires that run from the gen shed to the house panel…we were able to get the lights fired up in the house so there wasn’t a problem with the wires…so the new generator must have a problem…I tried it again the next day let it warm up try it again…nothing…so today at work I got a text from my darling wife letting me know that we have water! This means we have power from the big generator! A friend came by for coffee and her hubby came over after working a long shift with OT (probably tired and wore out) to look and see if he could help. He called the company and (I haven’t had a chance to talk with him as to what the issue was or if I was doing anything wrong which could be a possibility)  shortly after talking with them he had the generator producing power! 

    Tonight I will get home and be able to do some stuff that needs to be done like hang some drywall. But the nicest thing is that after I do that I can shower at home!! 

    On a side note…The generator is not our end all and be all idea of powering our home it is a piece in the puzzle of an off grid system as we will need something to top up batteries if the sun doesn’t shine long enough for the solar we will put in to recharge batteries. The plan is to have some wind and solar with the generator for back up…

    Shane

    We made it!

    After a long day of impatiently patient waiting and a day and half of slugging we are here.

    There is still lots to do currently everything is literally just thrown in the door.

    And the generator won’t start so we are bucketing in water.

    But the fires are warm, the dogs are beyond happy, the coyotes are serenading us. And tonight I get to sleep on a bed instead of the floor. 
    It already feels like home. 

    Modern day living Clashes with the freedom of Homesteading

    Ultimately I would love to believe we are beyond wealthy, I mean we have lots of wealth the wealth of love and family, the wealth of health and jobs the wealth of faith and friendships…. The wealth of money well it’s all about what matters right? So like so many of our friends we find ourselves starting this journey with a mortgage, one we planned for, one we budgeted, one that worked. Followed by every great ( or not so great) mortgage though is …… ( insert drum roll here) INSURANCE!

    We stressed about  getting our mortgage I mean we bought land, lots of land that although priceless to us is worthless to the bank. So down the private lending hole we went. I mean we have a drilled well- modern, a septic – Modern, Wood Heat – in this area still pretty common place. But no power, no “back-up” heat, not finished…..” Shane I hope we can get a mortgage!” as I stress out and bite off every last one of my fingernails. The mortgage my friends was easy! ” You want to do what?”, ” Oh yes we have someone in mind”, ” Just sign here…, write a gazillion cheques, fill out this direct deposit form” Poof we have a mortgage.

    That easy no-stress, no hassle mortgage needs that dreaded INSURANCE. And I get it we all want to know that our hard earned money is protected. So I called our current insurance company the one we have been devoted to for years, the one that insures our car, or rental unit, and our current residence. ” Hello, yes we just put in an offer on a new house and are in need of a new policy…. It’s off- grid”…..” CLICK”, Ok it wasn’t quite that bad they did say ” Sorry we don’t do insurance for off- grid”… and so the search continues. We did find a place that insures off-grid living OH YA!….” Just please fill out this 321,780 question survey and we will find the right policy for you.

    It went fairly easy,

    How big is the house?- 840 square feet main floor, 1/2 storey upstairs, full unfinished basement

    How many bathrooms?- 1

    How many bedrooms?- 3 ( kinda when they are finished)

    Any decks?- nope stairs but currently no decks

    Heat source?- Ummm strictly wood ” no back-up?” No ( and here you see it starts, and this I kind of can understand I mean if the fires go out we are at the very least out of water if the pipes don’t actually freeze and burst) ” You will have to pay a premium for that.” Alright the money I am saving by graciously making my dear husband slave away at cutting down, bucking up, splitting and dragging to the house my heat source that I will then force my poor poor over laboured kids to stack, will cover the “premium” of being able to create our own source of heat. ( side note, my husband does love doing the wood, so I’m not as evil as this sounds….don’t ask the kids though I’m am sure they feel over laboured I mean they did have to make lunch alone today)

    Next question….. What are you doing for power? ( and this question well it sits funny with me, I mean it would be hard and we are not by any means planning on doing it, but it is quite , quite possible to live even happily with out power)…. Currently there is a generator we will use for our power needs until we get some solar and wind installed and running ( which we have been working on as long as I have been trying to find insurance , but that is another post),

    So a generator is on site?- Yes

    How many amps is your electrical panel?- 60  and here folks is where it all fell apart, I mean we are choosing to homestead, to live off our land, to work our land… most of that implies outside, we also first have to pay the outrageous price of gas to power our ” only when we will die with out it” generator and then produce our own power to meet our needs. The key word in that sentence is NEEDS. Contrary to what you may think Mr. Insurance needs does not equal- 17 T.V’s, state of the art surround sound, a computer for each body plus guest, and every other modern day “have to have” convenience, it doesn’t even need a dryer for your clothes.

    And there you have my frustration, our Modern day world assumes we must have enough power available to run all the Modern day gadgets, even if we choice not to. The clash: we did find insurance to appease the lawyer and the lenders. With a clause that we must install 100 amp service with-in 90 days ( which is nuts if you can’t produce enough to require 100 amp service), We have only depreciated value of our contents which we had to pay additionally for, our house although insured for basic perils only ( think fire and smoke) is insured for a “basic “book rate not a replacement cost. We did however luck out we have enough liability if someone manages to electrocute themselves with our 60 amp service, or my husband falls a tree on them, they should be good for life.

     

    We are choosing to live simpler and with less stuff we are paying more for less.

    The Name Split Rock Heritage Homestead…

    What is a name? What does a name mean? We can break it down in different ways.  It could be just a name with little meaning that just states what we are doing or that we chose because it was catchy.  However the name Split Rock Heritage Homestead is much more than that.

    So lets break it down.

    Homestead:

    Wikipedia says,

    A homestead is a dwelling, especially a farmhouse, and adjacent outbuildings,[1] typically on a large agricultural holding such as a ranch or station.[2]

    In North America the word “homestead” historically referred to land claimed by a settler or squatter under the Homestead Act (USA) or Dominion Lands Act (Canada). In Old English the term was used to mean a human settlement, and in Southern Africa the term is used for a cluster of several houses normally occupied by a single extended family.

    So we settled on  calling it a “homestead” as we will be running some livestock and a garden.  Building on gardens and livestock we hope to preserve food through canning, smoking, pickling, and cold storage.  Something we learned after we purchased the property and decided on the name is that homesteaders in the States through the Homestead Act and through the Dominion Lands Act up here in Canada, were supplied with 160 acres of land (now they had to prove up on the land in various ways). Interestingly enough the amount of land we have purchased is just that 160 acres.  I am not going to suggest that we are breaking new ground here at Split Rock Heritage Homestead as we don’t have to prove up on the land in 3 years or 5 years time with various improvements. In fact if we run short on something we can just run to the store…or if something breaks we can purchase something new within in the day or shortly after without leaving our home (that is not the plan though). We have been blessed with a house that is well built (over built in many ways).  We have a well and a septic system that is ready to go.  So we are not a traditional homestead in the way it was in the 1800’s however we are going to go back to a different lifestyle than what is common place today.  We are not planning on taking the easy route.  We are planning on working our land learning as we go.  Through raising our animals for meat and eggs and maybe even doing some dairy we will learn more appreciation for the food we have.  Through the garden we hope to be able to share healthy food with friends and have our own food on the table throughout the year. The forest is also a major contributor to our homestead. The forest will provide heat and building materials as well as maple syrup, hopefully some nuts as well as offering habitat for the many game animals that we hope to hunt.  So all in all we have decided to call it a Homestead.

    Heritage:

    Wikipedia says:

    • History, “heritage” refers to events or processes that have a special meaning in group memory

    So “Heritage” is part of the process we are aiming to achieve.  We are hoping to use heritage breeds for our livestock.  There are a few different reasons for trying where we can to use these heritage breeds. One reason is that we can help build up the numbers on breeds that have been passed by for something that grows quicker bigger and cheaper even if they forgo quality. We as a society have by passed many breeds that have done us so well in the past.  Even though these breeds have better qualities in many ways we have put them on the side and in some instances these heritage breeds have almost disappeared from our world. We are also planning on using heritage breeds because they were developed with homesteaders and family farms in mind, as they produce quality meat and are a hardier animal able to withstand the seasons on homesteads.  We also plan on using were we can heritage seeds for the garden.  These may produce smaller vegetables and fruits however they don’t need to be engineered, seed saving is a possibility.  Not only are we planning on using heritage seeds and animals we are also planning on not using chemicals to create better yields.

    Split Rock:

    Split Rock Heritage Homestead is nestled in a valley between the granite ridges of the area, with a rock out cropping in the middle of the property splitting the property.  So giving it the name Split Rock was not a hard thing to do as it so aptly fit the surrounding area. However that is not the reason we chose it.  The reason we chose it is a part of my Heritage.  My Opa who came over to Canada had a dairy farm he named Split Rock. What a great name to have the opportunity to carry it forward.  What I remember of my Opa (even though I never did get to see Split Rock Dairy) was that he did things well.  He was a top producer and was an out of the box thinker.  He was a problem solver and he passed that on through his kids who are all problem solvers and out of the box thinkers who have passed it along to their  children.  I look at my cousins and I am blessed to think of the Heritage that I have behind me.  The legacy that has been left for us. So I look forward to the name Split Rock being on our gate.

    My other Opa also came to Canada after the war.  He worked in a grocery store and worked his way up to produce manager.  His garden at home was always immaculate and weeds trembled when he came close to the gate.  He canned and preserved his bounty with my Oma and enjoyed it throughout the year feeding their family of nine. He too passed on amazing traits to his children who have shown his legacy to do many people around them.

    Both of my Opas were hard working men of values and integrity.  Through using the name Split Rock it will remind me daily of where my roots are even if it is only named after the one it reminds me of both of them and they are a part of my heritage.

    So there you go folks we have named our place Split Rock Heritage Homestead.